But What Can We Do? (Police Shootings and the Role of the Church)

I have been aching the last few days. I am sure you have been as well. I have felt sick and nauseated. I have been both angry and sad. I have had quite a bit to say but then have been driven to a mournful silence.

I had a conversation with a black friend of mine yesterday and she told me how she scared for her own family, and for what kind of future is in store for her two little boys. And it was hard to hear. I haven’t walked a day in the shoes of a black man. I don’t know what it is like on a day to day basis to be a person of color. But I know that my heart breaks when people die and when they feel as if they are being targeted unjustly.

I saw the reports come across my Twitter feed last night of a peaceful protest in Dallas that was turned upside-down by individuals who believed that white police must pay for the murder of Alton Sterling, Philando Castile, and others. My heart breaks for the public servants who were wrongfully murdered and their mourning families.

There has to be a better way forward. Violence will always lead to more violence. Hatred will always produce more hatred. And while it is incredibly difficult to find anything good through all of this, it seems as if there are more people beginning to realize that something needs to change and they want to know where to even begin.

The one common question that keeps coming up in all of my conversations both online and face-to-face is, “What do we do about all of this? What can I do? How can I help make a difference when I just don’t even know where to begin?”

As one who always tries to give voice to the way of Jesus and who always tries to extend an invitation into his way on earth as it is in heaven, I believe there are many things followers of Jesus can do to walk alongside those who are grieving and hurting, while at the same time working toward forgiveness and reconciliation as peacemakers.

While our first position is always prayer, there is an unfortunate knee-jerk tendency by some Christians to take positions of fear and helplessness, cowering behind close doors and asking Jesus to come take us away. This mindset neglects the real “hands and feet” work of the “body of Christ.” Our ministry is not one of running in fear, but one of working powerfully in the Spirit to bring God’s Kingdom to earth as it is in heaven. We are the means through which God’s love, peace, forgiveness, and reconciliation extends into the world. We desperately need to rediscover our identity and purpose here on earth.

And right now many of our conversations (within in the Body of Christ and then with those in the world) are not conservations. Our words quickly become angry, heated, non-loving diatribes with only one purpose… to win the argument and make the other person look bad. Our minds, too often, are made up and our ears are closed off to learning, understanding, and discovering truth from another perspective or angle. It is like two massive tectonic plates that continue to grind and push with immense force and ferocity… with the unfortunate consequence being wreckage and devastation.*

We are not better for it, nor is anyone else in the world.*

If we are going to move forward in any meaningful way and have difficult discussions on what it means to follow Jesus in a post-Christian country, that is becoming more fractured and divided each day, and then hammer out what that means for you, as an individual, and then what that means collectively for our churches, then we all have to get better at having conversations with each other. We have to get better at walking alongside each other in grace and love, while earnestly seeking the heart and truth of God in Christ together. We are all going to have to get off of our righteous high-horses, while learning how to be humble in Spirit. And at the end of the day, it may mean that we decide to disagree with one another, but we will do it standing united in Christ and do it bonded together by our mutual pursuit of grace and love toward each other.

I believe that beginning in a posture of repentance and humility will prepare us for how we help mend and heal individuals and communities from the bottom up. This movement does not begin at the top with politicians or other figureheads taking a top-down approach at reformation. It begins with us, each individual, in our daily lives, in our relationships, and in our conversations with one another. The change we seek, for the transformation of individuals and communities, can only happen at the grassroots, relational level. And it is that approach that looks more like Jesus, than an approach that trusts in a President or Presidential-candidate to make it happen. Or an approach that trusts in man-made institutions for the healing and transformation of individuals and communities. This kind of change can only come from God, and we have neglected our responsibility in sharing that with people.

Jesus did not preoccupy himself with top-down, structural, governmental, or political reform. His time was spent listening to others, conversing with them, eating with them, and sharing stories and parables of what it looks like to embody the Kingdom of God in our lives presently, and inviting them into that reality. He met, not just with his friends, but also societal outcasts and sinners. The change that Jesus affected was at a personal, relational level. He knew it was only through relationships that people would change at the heart level. Change from the top-down may change behavior, but it doesn’t change people’s hearts… because it feels forced or coerced and it leads to antipathy and resentment.

We are the hands and feet of Christ. The government is not. Donald Trump is not. Hillary Clinton is not. And whether they say they are “Christians” or not is utterly and spectacularly inconsequential. As we have outsourced our purpose as the Church to the government and politicians, we have failed our country and our communities.

So the answer to the question of “what can we do?” is simple.

Quit complaining about the government and politicians and how they have let us down, and start meeting your neighbors, begin having meals together, meet together with people who are not like you, get to know individuals of other races and ethnicities, get to know people of other lifestyles and belief systems, do more listening than talking (again, do more LISTENING than talking, begin working toward forgiveness and reconciliation in your relationships and then with others, work together to give a voice to the voiceless and stand on the side of those who are outcasts and those who are oppressed or marginalized, and then begin teaching your kids or the next generation how to walk in these ways as well.

For this is the only way we will save ourselves from ourselves, when we quit depending on politicians and institutions and begin doing the work we have tragically neglected for far too long.

Let’s do this!


10 thoughts on “But What Can We Do? (Police Shootings and the Role of the Church)

  1. I appreciate the energy in sharing this response. This is not about seeking blame, it’s about building relationships that will eventually lead to the reconciliation that is so difficult to comprehend after tragic events. Love your neighbor, literally.


    1. I like this, I have said very similar things about people needing to stop looking up to politicians. They are 2 people trying to control the world, helping to keep the negative here, and people fall right into it. People do need to realize that these politicians serve them no good, and need to stop looking up to them. Politicians are not who to look up to. You look up to yourself, and only yourself, to change yourself and the way you think. When people realize that, then it makes sense, it just takes a long time to realize what seems so simple now that I realize it. This post has inspired my next blog post. I’m going to write about a different way people can change things, but the way you wrote it is a great way too. It helps to have different ways people can see it for what fits people best as individuals, so I think my new thought that just came to me will be another good way. I have been on a roll yesterday and today with learning new things and writing what I learn, especially today – I don’t want to over do my blog, but is that possible?


  2. Jesus came not only to save us, but to teach us about relationships. We have to start somewhere and I love your suggestions of reaching out and listening. A ripple starts with a single stone, but can have many ripples if we learn to love one another and truly are empathetic in trying to understand what it is like to walk in one’s shoes. Blessings to you!

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